When our league was forming, I spent a lot of time visiting the websites of various established soccer leagues, trying to get a handle on what type of modified rules they played by. This was in the midst of the movement to small sided soccer, but regardless of the field size a league used, almost all had this magic phrase:
shall play matches governed by the latest FIFA Laws of the Game, with the following exceptions
Most of the exceptions are for field size, match length, goal size, roster size, ball size, and a few foul/penalty adjustments. But that’s it. Some may institute more detailed punishments for fighting, drug use, things like that. But overall, FIFA rules apply.
This brought up an interesting situation in a recent match in our league. In a 6v6 small sided match, there was an indirect kick awarded about one yard away from the penalty box. The team did a tap and shoot which the kicker executed perfectly. The ball was headed right over the head of a player in the wall towards the upper corner of the goal, until the player whose head it was whizzing by swatted it down with both hands.
FIFA rules dictate a red card in this situation for denying an obvious goal scoring opportunity by handling the ball in the penalty box. In addition, many associations, ours included, have rules stipulating automatic one match suspensions if a player receives a red card. These automatic sanctions are meant to discourage fighting, but technically – they apply for ANY red card.
So what do you think should have happened?
Should the kid have been shown Red? If he was, should the one match suspension have applied? Should the referee just warn him? Yellow card instead? Does age matter? What if it was Challenge/Select vs Recreational? Lots of interesting questions.
Obviously, the kid who swatted the ball away didn’t deserve a suspension for a knee jerk reaction. In our recreational league, we encourage referees to yellow card when appropriate because it gets the kids attention. In U10 and above, the kid likely would have been shown a red card because we try to enforce the rules properly so the kids can learn them as some prepare to move to the travel team level. We’ve yet to have a red card for any of our players, which is good, and the coaches know to teach the seven deadly sins early. In U8 – they’re still learning, so the only thing that might earn a red card would be a kid physically fighting with another kid. That said, when I talked about it with our referee coordinator, we both felt there’s no way a match suspension should apply. But the rules would call for it.
Obviously common sense would prevail in a situation like this and the league likely would have not applied any suspension if the kid had been sent off. Most referees would probably not have shown red unless the kid clearly meant to swat down the ball vs. just trying to swat it away from their head, which is what happened for us. However, this was also a ‘coachable moment’ for our league and we realize our rules need some tweaking over the summer to ensure they don’t apply in unexpected ways.
So the moral of the story is – check your rules. They might apply in ways you never intended. Some leagues don’t show cards at all in Recreation or only for fighting, others try to enforce the rules properly in older Rec divisions to make sure the kids get familiar with them. Showing a kid a card is a huge coachable moment if handled properly, but your rules may have unintended consequences.
March 28th, 2007 at 11:45 am
Well, in 15 years of coaching (6 at a select level, including two kids, and several teams that my kids didn’t play on, U-5 thru U-17), 12 years of youth soccer myself, the number of red cards in a *youth* game I’ve been involved with is…
2
That’s right. Two. And, one was a mistake (second yellow for coming on the field without permission, even though the assistant had sent her on). The other was deserved. I’m not sure the number of yellow cards, but it’s probably around 10. Less than 1 a year.
We had a similar situation to yours last year at BU-11 (select team). Not one, but two kids stopped goals with their hands. Both got yellow cards, and we laughed about it with the ref afterwards. There was NO WAY he was going to send off a 10 year old kid for just reacting. In addition, he didn’t report the yellows to the league. Keep the calls in the spirit of the game. This ref, as well as your ref, did the right thing (maybe not the correct thing, but definitely the right thing)
My real point is this: American soccer refs don’t use the card system effectively…whether it’s a flying tackle at the knees, or a full volley to the face of a goal keeper, the local youth referees are very reluctant to give a card. And when they actually do, it’s rarely reported. Why? Two reasons:
First is lack of supervision and peer review. I refereed (and instructed referees) at amateur, junior, senior, and Major Junior levels of hockey. The referees are concentrated at the rinks, and you get peer reviews, whether you like it or not. You blow a call, the crew waiting for the next game are there to let you know. Soccer is spread out, and the refs from one game to another may not know each other. Also, most refs show up at game time (the younger they are, the closer to game time they show) and don’t have a chance to watch the previous or later games. Which is where a lot of learning is going to happen.
Second: Laziness. Write ups are just a part of the job, yet most officials will avoid them like the plague. But since it’s the ONLY way to document a players behavior, it’s CRUCIAL that it’s used, and used effectively. The player who volleyed my keeper in the face, for example. She would have been disciplined if it was documented, even if it was thought to be accidental(turns out she had kicked *every* keeper, on *every* team in the U12 league, in the face). The rules don’t differentiate “accidents” or intent. But it was easier to ignore it. My keeper missed a week of school with a concussion (and the rest of the season), and endured several trips to the dentist as a result of this. And the girl never received any card, at any time, during the season.
Being named in a lawsuit as a result from a players injury has made me more aware of this situation. Fortunately, as a referee, I had documented, not only the day of the injury, but the past behavior of the kid who loved hitting guys from behind. In the end, I didn’t have to appear in court, but it was stressful nevertheless. It’s only a matter of time before it happens in a soccer game, and right now, IMHO, the referees in our area are not doing enough CYA work. And this attitude comes from up above. And for those that think that referees are automagically excluded from responsibility because the rulebook says so, think again. All it takes is a lawyer with $$ in his eyes to name you in the lawsuit.
In the end, soccer referees need better training, better instruction as to writing up misconduct, and more supervision, to ensure not only are they calling the games correctly (which can avoid most of the dangerous situations), but that they are using the tools they are given as a referees to their fullest extent, and keeping the game safe for the kids.
[steps off soapbox]
March 28th, 2007 at 11:56 am
Excellent! I find the sheer terror of showing cards – especially yellows, in youth soccer to be odd. We actually had a rule, advocated by someone helping set our initial rules, that we would not show cards to U10 and below because it ‘might hurt their self esteem’ That lasted one year. It’s not going to crush a kid to get a yellow. Perfect example – my U8’s are playing and there’s a bigger kid on the other team talking smack to one of my kids. “You’re a freak!” “No – YOU’RE a freak!” “No YOU are” and so on. The ref stops the match, and cards them both. It was PERFECT Talk about your coaching moment. I personally hadn’t heard the back and forth, but the center did. He showed them both yellow – they sobered up REAL quick, I got to explain to the kids again what a yellow meant and what getting a SECOND one meant – and wham – both kids shutup and played.
It all comes down to referee judgement. and the situation. And you’re right – training, including some training on how refereeing U10s and U12s may be different than U14 on up.
The bottom line is this – it is bound to happen – some kid is going to ‘go after’ or punch or jump onto another kid at some point and the referee better darn well be ready to show red instead of hoping the kids coach will tell him how wrong he was in doing whatever he did.
So while we can fuss about the FIFA refs showing too much yellow, the youth referees seem to be scared to. I’ve seen incidents where I’m amazed yellows aren’t shown, one involving my own kid who took a kid out going for the ball – it wasn’t clean at ALL and I just KNEW he was going to get his first card. He didn’t. I explained to him how close he really came and that he KNEW it wasn’t clean and not to do it again. But not every parents is going to do that and what does the kid learn?
March 28th, 2007 at 4:08 pm
Exactly. Your example is what the power of the card does. Everyone steps back in line when you flash it. It’s merely a tool to control the game with, it doesn’t have to be the end of the world. Your description of “sheer terror” is exactly what I’ve found too. And this includes adult referees doing youth games too.
March 29th, 2007 at 7:54 am
I liked MN’s post very much. I am now starting to center U-14 classic matches – but have been “weaned” as an assistant referee watching much more experienced folks. That did not make a difference last week in a U-14 boys game. I showed two yellows – could have thrown more (as an afterthought). I gave both after verbal warnings. One team played like the match was a school yard brawl (well, maybe I am being sarcastic but you get the point).
I have another U-14 game on Saturday – and will have my cards ready. One thing I did learn – and from other refs too – to watch games, talk to the players during the match (gotten to be my style) like saying “cool down”, “watch the arms”, “let’s not let this match get ridiculous with fouls”, and I also try to always keep a smile.
I think I was free associating with these comments – but thanks, MN, again.
March 29th, 2007 at 7:58 am
I’d be so tempted to start messing with them “Don’t make me grab my wallet!” “Have you had a yellow today?” “Keep that up and you’ll push your way onto the bench!” 🙂 I’m evil that way. My kids are going to need so much therapy.
March 29th, 2007 at 9:43 am
There was one kid who I evenually gave a yellow too. I was not particularly nice when I pulled him to the side and gave it to him. I said something like “another tackle like that and I promise another card and you’ll be sitting watching your next match with your parents”. I think he got the point.
March 29th, 2007 at 9:47 am
I should point out that almost all the matches – at any level – I have done have been really enjoyable to do. I know the testosterone starts to kick in when these boys get older. But it is something I like and I think being a referee is a great learning experince for both me and the players. The best games I call are the ones that I don’t really have to get involved in – good fair and fun soccer with the boys and girl trying the best they can. Then I feel I have the best seat in the house.
March 29th, 2007 at 11:20 am
Very true. Another funny thing as a coach – when you get your certification, you have a little extra in your pocket for refs that you feel called a bad match (and you gain a whole new appreciation for what refs go through)
A coach I know had a number of missed calls during a match including his keeper having his leg yanked out from under him (by an opponents hands!) as he scrambled for the ball. So he wanted the ref to know that he felt too many major things got missed and the ref responded “well if you don’t like it, why don’t you go get certified and ref” to which he replied “I already have. I’m already a grade 8 and that’s why I know you did a horrible job” 🙂
I’m not advocating coaches badgering referees, but just like there are badly trained coaches out there, there are bad refs too and a calm discussion afterwards if you feel things got out of hand can be a good thing.
March 30th, 2007 at 8:06 am
I coach and referee and see calls missed. I am one to keep my mouth shut. I miss calls – all referees do. I was watching a match last night on Gol TV and saw the referee miss three fouls (or what I thought were) in a span of two minutes. Last, I became a referee because I felt I needed to learn more about the game and what it’s like to be “on the other side”. Plus it helps pays for gas money…lol!
March 30th, 2007 at 8:24 am
I think in this case it was egregious things costing a goal. I too tend to keep my mouth shut (though I definitely have been know to let out a ‘Huh?’ or ‘How was that legal’ in a tight match where something like a good shove got missed. But that’s about the extent. I think I can count on one hand the number of matches I’ve seen (and not necessarily coached) where I would have wanted to say something to the referee afterwards. The rest of the time – hey – your referee is GOING to miss calls during your match. If it’s fair and the match plays on and no danger to the kids – there you go. If you encounter a match where the ref catches everything – go buy a lottery ticket 🙂
And I don’t mean this is any negative way. Refereeing soccer is an impossible task to do perfectly. I know with my feeble brain, I doubt I could center very well. Happy to run lines though 🙂
April 4th, 2007 at 12:12 pm
A couple of thoughts. Obviously, the referee deals with the 90 minutes (or however long you’re playing) and the league deals with suspensions/discipline. This separation of powers works very well for everyone concerned. Denying a obvious goal scoring opportunity should rarely be met with more than a one game suspension. However, every send off should be subject to a suspension hearing of some sort regardless of age.
I vividly remember sending a 9 year old off some 25 years ago for kicking a goalkeeper in the shins while the goalkeeper held the ball. It happens. Referees have to deal with it. If the league administration chose not to suspend the player, that’s within their authority and as a referee, I would have no problem with it.
April 4th, 2007 at 12:18 pm
And that highlights the key question. Both denying an obvious goal and violent conduct will get you a red card and a match suspension. The trick is, with younger kids, should you do away with the auto one match suspension for the non violent/dangerous red card offenses (knowing the league can impose one if they wish to a problem player)