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	<title>Comments on: What Parents Should Shout From The Sidelines</title>
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		<title>By: Jenn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 04:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Done!  My daughter has another play-around tomorrow, and I expect it might generate something interesting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Done!  My daughter has another play-around tomorrow, and I expect it might generate something interesting.</p>
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		<title>By: Soccer Dad</title>
		<link>http://onthepitch.org/2007/09/18/what-parents-should-shout-from-the-sidelines/comment-page-1/#comment-40257</link>
		<dc:creator>Soccer Dad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 01:31:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Absolutely - &lt;a href=&quot;http://onthepitch.org/wp-login.php?action=register&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;create an account&lt;/a&gt; and I&#039;ll set you up as an author so you can login and write guest posts.

And anyone else who might be interested in guest posting - drop me an email and let me know what you might like to write about.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absolutely &#8211; <a href="http://onthepitch.org/wp-login.php?action=register" rel="nofollow">create an account</a> and I&#8217;ll set you up as an author so you can login and write guest posts.</p>
<p>And anyone else who might be interested in guest posting &#8211; drop me an email and let me know what you might like to write about.</p>
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		<title>By: Jenn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 00:26:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting topic (yes, I&#039;m just catching up!) for me, considering that this past weekend was the first &quot;play-around&quot; for our U10 Academy teams.  One of the biggest mantras from the coaches to the parents has been, &quot;Please, no coaching or directing the players while they are on field.&quot;

Now, this didn&#039;t seem to be much of an issue during our intra-squad scrimmages.  But with the onset of matches against other clubs&#039; Academy teams, I&#039;m starting to hear more grumbling about this restriction.  The girls love it, though!

Let me know if you&#039;re still interested in a guest post about Academy.  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting topic (yes, I&#8217;m just catching up!) for me, considering that this past weekend was the first &#8220;play-around&#8221; for our U10 Academy teams.  One of the biggest mantras from the coaches to the parents has been, &#8220;Please, no coaching or directing the players while they are on field.&#8221;</p>
<p>Now, this didn&#8217;t seem to be much of an issue during our intra-squad scrimmages.  But with the onset of matches against other clubs&#8217; Academy teams, I&#8217;m starting to hear more grumbling about this restriction.  The girls love it, though!</p>
<p>Let me know if you&#8217;re still interested in a guest post about Academy.  <img src='http://onthepitch.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: What to say on the sideline &#171; Coosa Storm 97</title>
		<link>http://onthepitch.org/2007/09/18/what-parents-should-shout-from-the-sidelines/comment-page-1/#comment-40231</link>
		<dc:creator>What to say on the sideline &#171; Coosa Storm 97</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2007 14:52:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Soccer Dad</title>
		<link>http://onthepitch.org/2007/09/18/what-parents-should-shout-from-the-sidelines/comment-page-1/#comment-40213</link>
		<dc:creator>Soccer Dad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Sep 2007 00:40:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s a delicate balance and I tend to open my mouth more often than I should. I&#039;ve got a post in my queue that I really need to finish titled &quot;Sometimes you just have to be honest&quot; about how to deal with kids after a loss where they just don&#039;t play. You CAN sugar coat things too much and sometimes you have to find a diplomatic way of saying &quot;you were being lazy and let them win&quot; without actually saying that. If any of my kids come off the field having played hard, even if mistakes are made and the score is 0-15, I tell them they did a great job and to keep trying and working to get better. But if they&#039;re copping an attitude and fooling around and they get run over because they&#039;re just not trying, there will be some, shall we say, less than positive things said - in the van. Life isn&#039;t all sunshine and roses.

Note I&#039;m talking about U10 and above. U5/U6 kids are going to be daisy pickers regardless and U8 is a mixed bag. But you&#039;ll learn to recognize when the kids move from &#039;amoeba ball&#039; to something a bit more structured and serious.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s a delicate balance and I tend to open my mouth more often than I should. I&#8217;ve got a post in my queue that I really need to finish titled &#8220;Sometimes you just have to be honest&#8221; about how to deal with kids after a loss where they just don&#8217;t play. You CAN sugar coat things too much and sometimes you have to find a diplomatic way of saying &#8220;you were being lazy and let them win&#8221; without actually saying that. If any of my kids come off the field having played hard, even if mistakes are made and the score is 0-15, I tell them they did a great job and to keep trying and working to get better. But if they&#8217;re copping an attitude and fooling around and they get run over because they&#8217;re just not trying, there will be some, shall we say, less than positive things said &#8211; in the van. Life isn&#8217;t all sunshine and roses.</p>
<p>Note I&#8217;m talking about U10 and above. U5/U6 kids are going to be daisy pickers regardless and U8 is a mixed bag. But you&#8217;ll learn to recognize when the kids move from &#8216;amoeba ball&#8217; to something a bit more structured and serious.</p>
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		<title>By: Anne Glamore</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anne Glamore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 23:25:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Once again, you&#039;ve come through with some fabulous advice!!

As I take my cooking very seriously, your joke hit home with me.  I don&#039;t let any of the boys in my turf when I&#039;m cooking unless I need a jar opened.  Coaching my cooking would result in instant penalties.

Point taken, so I&#039;ll report back and refrain from shouting:&quot;YO!  Get up in his face and steal that ball!&quot;

Anne Glamore</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once again, you&#8217;ve come through with some fabulous advice!!</p>
<p>As I take my cooking very seriously, your joke hit home with me.  I don&#8217;t let any of the boys in my turf when I&#8217;m cooking unless I need a jar opened.  Coaching my cooking would result in instant penalties.</p>
<p>Point taken, so I&#8217;ll report back and refrain from shouting:&#8221;YO!  Get up in his face and steal that ball!&#8221;</p>
<p>Anne Glamore</p>
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